User terms

Version terms-2026-08-04 — this is the version recorded against your account when you ticked the box at sign-up.

1. What this service does

Before You Like reviews Hinge candidates for you and, when you confirm a decision, sends that decision to Hinge on your behalf. It is not affiliated with, endorsed by, or connected to Hinge or Match Group.

2. Automating Hinge breaks Hinge's rules

Using this service means your Hinge account is being automated. That violates Hinge's Terms of Service. There is no careful way to do it that stops it being a violation.

Your Hinge account can be limited or banned as a result. This is not a remote edge case; it is the ordinary consequence Hinge applies when it detects automation. We cannot reverse it, appeal it for you, or compensate you for it, and no setting in this product removes the possibility.

3. We hold your Hinge session

The software that talks to Hinge runs on our servers, not on your device. Your Hinge session lives there. We are therefore technically able to reach your Hinge account itself, not only the board you see in this product.

This follows from how the product is built and is not something you can turn off. If a third party ever obtained that data from us, what they would hold is your Hinge account, not only your board data.

4. What we do to lower the odds, and what we do not do

• Sends are paced and jittered to look like a person, never at a fixed interval.
• Every decision needs your confirmation before anything is sent, and the queue can be paused at any time.

So you are not surprised later: that pacing is per-send only. There is no daily send limit and no quiet-hours window. If either is added, this section changes and you will be asked to accept the new version.

5. AI estimates are advisory

Income ranges, career assessments, and any public-web research shown against a candidate are machine estimates. They can be wrong, out of date, or matched to the wrong person. Sources and confidence are shown in the evidence panel so you can check them. Do not treat them as verified facts about a real person.

6. Your account

You must be old enough to use Hinge in your jurisdiction, and the Hinge account you connect must be your own. You are responsible for keeping your password to this service secure. You may stop using the service and ask for your data to be deleted at any time; the mechanics of deletion are covered by the privacy policy shipping with A3.

7. Responsibility

You decide every send. We carry it out, on our own servers, with our own outbound network identity. Both of those are true at once, and this section will be rewritten with legal review before this service charges money — the earlier draft of this document simply assigned the whole risk to the user, which does not honestly describe a service that performs the automation itself.

What we can state plainly today: we do not guarantee that your Hinge account will remain in good standing, we do not guarantee any particular result from using this service, and we cannot restore a Hinge account that Hinge restricts.

8. Changes

These terms carry a version. When the version changes you are asked to accept the new one; the version you accepted and when is recorded against your account.

用户条款

版本 terms-2026-08-04 —— 这就是你在注册时勾选 那个方框时，记录到你账号上的版本号。

1. 这项服务做什么

Before You Like 替你审阅 Hinge 上的候选人；当你确认一个决定之后，它代表你把这个决定 发送给 Hinge。它与 Hinge 或 Match Group 没有任何从属、背书或关联关系。

2. 自动化操作 Hinge 违反 Hinge 的规则

使用本服务意味着你的 Hinge 账号正在被自动化操作。这违反 Hinge 的服务条款。 不存在某种「小心一点做」就不算违反的做法。

你的 Hinge 账号可能因此被限制或封禁。这不是小概率的边缘情况， 而是 Hinge 检测到自动化之后的常规处理。我们无法撤销它、无法替你申诉、也无法为此 赔偿你；本产品里没有任何设置可以消除这种可能性。

3. 你的 Hinge 会话由我们持有

与 Hinge 通信的软件跑在我们的服务器上，而不是你的设备上。你的 Hinge 会话存放在那里。 因此我们在技术上能够触达你的 Hinge 账号本身，而不只是你在本产品里看到的这块板。

这是产品构造方式的必然结果，不是一个你可以关掉的开关。如果有第三方从我们这里拿到了 这份数据，他们拿到的是你的 Hinge 账号，而不只是你的看板数据。

4. 我们为降低风险做了什么，又没有做什么

• 发送经过节奏控制与随机抖动，尽量像真人，绝不按固定间隔发出。
• 任何东西发出之前，每一个决定都需要你确认；队列随时可以暂停。

为免你日后意外：上面这种节奏控制**只作用于单次发送之间**。目前没有每日发送上限， 也没有夜间静默时段。如果将来加上其中任何一项，本条会随之修改，并且会请你接受新版本。

5. AI 估算仅供参考

收入区间、职业评估，以及针对某个候选人展示的任何公开网络检索结果，都是机器估算。 它们可能是错的、过时的，或者匹配到了另一个人身上。来源与置信度都会在证据面板里展示， 方便你核对。不要把它们当作关于一个真实的人的已核实事实。

6. 你的账号

你必须达到你所在司法辖区使用 Hinge 的年龄要求，并且你接入的 Hinge 账号必须是你本人的。 妥善保管你在本服务上的密码是你的责任。你可以随时停止使用本服务并要求删除你的数据； 删除的具体机制由 A3 交付的隐私政策规定。

7. 责任

每一次发送都由你决定。执行发送的是我们，用我们自己的服务器和我们自己的出口网络身份。 这两件事同时成立。在本服务开始收费之前，本条会经过法律审阅重写 —— 本文档更早的那一版直接把全部风险划给用户，而那并不诚实地描述一项自己执行了 自动化操作的服务。

今天我们能明确写下的是：我们不保证你的 Hinge 账号会一直处于正常状态， 不保证使用本服务能得到任何特定结果，也无法恢复一个被 Hinge 限制的 Hinge 账号。

8. 变更

本条款带有版本号。版本变更时会请你接受新版本；你接受了哪个版本、在什么时候接受的， 都会记录到你的账号上。

Privacy

• Your Before You Like account email and password hash are stored so you can sign in.
• Your Hinge session is held by software we run on our servers — not on your device — so that we can run the board and send actions on your behalf after you confirm them.
• Board data (waves, cards, send history) lives in our database scoped to your account.
• We do not invent further data practices here; A3 will spell them out completely.

隐私

• 我们保存你的 Before You Like 账号邮箱与密码哈希，用于登录。
• 你的 Hinge 会话由我们运行在服务器上的软件持有 —— 不在你的设备上 —— 这样我们才能运行看板，并在你确认之后代表你发出操作。
• 看板数据（波次、卡片、发送历史）存放在我们的数据库里，按你的账号隔离。
• 我们不在这里临时发明更多的数据处理规则；A3 会把它们完整写清楚。

Refunds

Support: matchiq202607@gmail.com. This is a real inbox that a person reads. We do not publish a guaranteed response time yet, so please do not read one into it — when we can keep a commitment, it will be stated here explicitly rather than implied.

退款

支持：matchiq202607@gmail.com。 这是一个真人会读的信箱。我们目前还没有公布保证的响应时间，所以也请不要从中读出一个来 —— 等我们能守住一个承诺的时候，会明确写在这里，而不是让你去推断。

Risk notice

The two risks worth re-reading, both stated in full in the terms above:

• §2 — automating Hinge violates its Terms of Service, and your Hinge account can be limited or banned for it.
• §3 — your Hinge session is held on our servers, so we can reach your Hinge account itself, not only your board.

风险提示

两条值得反复读的风险，上面的条款里都有完整表述：

• 第 2 条 —— 自动化操作 Hinge 违反它的服务条款， 你的 Hinge 账号可能因此被限制或封禁。
• 第 3 条 —— 你的 Hinge 会话保存在我们的服务器上， 因此我们能够触达你的 Hinge 账号本身，而不只是你的看板。